I talked to many people during the day about marketing their books and quite a few have mentioned to me that they are afraid to send advertisements to friends and family for fear that they won’t want to receive them. Or even worse case scenario, they will say something negative to them about sending them advertisements or too many advertisements.
And I understand that.
We are a fearful bunch of humanity. We act on our fears more than what we do our love for other people. We refrain from loving other people because of the fear of rejection. There is something about rejection that ruffles our feathers intensely and we don’t like the feeling.
But if you are an author and you want to sell your book then you have to think like a sales person and a marketer and overcome your fears and not let them control you and bind you.
Okay. So how do you do that?
You simply do what you are most afraid of and plow through the feelings that things are going to end up in a mess. You have to let your love for people come through your heart instead of allowing the fear of rejection to take hold of your mind.
And it takes practice.
It takes a lot of self-talk and determination and perseverance and self-control. All of those qualities can be learned and mastered very well.
Once you get over the fear of rejection you will find unbelievable freedom and love within your grasp. It will overflow you and you will be amazed that you lived without it before. It’s worth every minute to work on devouring your fears of people and rejection and take charge of your life.
I would be interested in mentoring you at no charge if you would like to overcome your fears and experience love maybe for the first time. Now is the time to make a difference in your life and see the success that’s waiting for you.